Grow bolder in bringing your complaints to God^there is a difference between a sinful grumbling, and a humble complaint.See guidance to return to your center of JoyLearn to preach to yourself rather than listen to yourself^Your heart is a constant stream of thought.^Ps. 103^[Psalm 43] as the psalmist wrote these words, he had yet to be delivered.God is not just a dispenser of joy or a stream that carries joy, He is Joy. One look at your heart will let others know that God is your joy.
God invites us to moan in His presence. I guess this is why so many of the Psalms can say exactly what I feel when I have not the words to tell my heavenly Father. He wants to know our pains and problems. He wants us to come to Him. Go to the Lord with your complaints (He knows them already anyway ;)).